Pissed Off
These few days, someone pissed me off totally...
On Friday night, I received a call from a friend asking me if I want to tutor two primary school kids.. I thought for a while and said SHOULD'T be a problem, but ask how much the person is willing to pay and where he's staying FIRST..
Then, after a few minutes, she called back and I decided to reject the offer.. And don't know why she got mad and started to scold me saying I am not matured in handling things etc etc..
I didn't want to quarrel and waited for her to finish off before hanging up the phone after saying my goodbye..
I was a bit pissed off already.. To me, it's a simple affair.. Why did she say I was giving her trouble in terms of finding a reason to explain to his friend why I reject...
In the first place, I didn't agree to anything.. I just asked her to find out more.. Secondly, since I have not agreed to anything, I have the right to reject..
Kaoz.. Scold me??? My parents and elder brothers do not dare to scold me anymore and she scolded me for being immatured in handling things???
Judging from her character, she must have assumed that I agreed and she told the person I agreed to the terms and conditions..
Really.. I cannot tahan this character flaw of her.. She only listens to what she wants to hear and assumes too much things.. This is not the first time already...
Then, just now, she was on MSN and messaged me to ask me how I was.. I said I was not happy because she scolded me..
Then I explained my point to her.. But she just went didn't reply and after a while, went offline and never came on again..
WTF!~! This gal is basically super rude... Totally pissed off at her now...
And two friends of mine asked me to make her mine and marry her.. Please spare me!~! Edward knows me best when the first time he met her, he knows that she does not suit me..
The above situation is already one example how she can totally pissed me off at her immaturity.. Imagine.. A 28 year old woman with the mind of a 16 year old.. Who can tahan? If I didn't know her better, I would have thought that she might be autistic...
She always assumes things and alway never listens to my advice, so why bother? Due this characteristic of her, I have on quite a few occasions went into arguments with her.. Already told her of this character-flaw...
I mean.. We are supposed to be tactful right? So I always make a point to select my words carefully.. But, she is one who never listens..
Another point is that, whenever I talk, she'll interupt with something totally irrelevant.. I am not one who likes to be interupted.. So.. Another minus point..
Lastly but not least, friends who know her knows that she is too-open.. Going beyond even what the Westerners can accept.. It's something that exceeds my moral limits and open-mindedness... Haha...
So.. All these majors points are real detering factors for me... I did not include age as I have no problems with that.. More concern with maturity and morality.. Haha..
Ok.. Feel much better after venting my anger on the keyboard in here.. Haha..
Still trying to find a job.. Sianz..
On Friday night, I received a call from a friend asking me if I want to tutor two primary school kids.. I thought for a while and said SHOULD'T be a problem, but ask how much the person is willing to pay and where he's staying FIRST..
Then, after a few minutes, she called back and I decided to reject the offer.. And don't know why she got mad and started to scold me saying I am not matured in handling things etc etc..
I didn't want to quarrel and waited for her to finish off before hanging up the phone after saying my goodbye..
I was a bit pissed off already.. To me, it's a simple affair.. Why did she say I was giving her trouble in terms of finding a reason to explain to his friend why I reject...
In the first place, I didn't agree to anything.. I just asked her to find out more.. Secondly, since I have not agreed to anything, I have the right to reject..
Kaoz.. Scold me??? My parents and elder brothers do not dare to scold me anymore and she scolded me for being immatured in handling things???
Judging from her character, she must have assumed that I agreed and she told the person I agreed to the terms and conditions..
Really.. I cannot tahan this character flaw of her.. She only listens to what she wants to hear and assumes too much things.. This is not the first time already...
Then, just now, she was on MSN and messaged me to ask me how I was.. I said I was not happy because she scolded me..
Then I explained my point to her.. But she just went didn't reply and after a while, went offline and never came on again..
WTF!~! This gal is basically super rude... Totally pissed off at her now...
And two friends of mine asked me to make her mine and marry her.. Please spare me!~! Edward knows me best when the first time he met her, he knows that she does not suit me..
The above situation is already one example how she can totally pissed me off at her immaturity.. Imagine.. A 28 year old woman with the mind of a 16 year old.. Who can tahan? If I didn't know her better, I would have thought that she might be autistic...
She always assumes things and alway never listens to my advice, so why bother? Due this characteristic of her, I have on quite a few occasions went into arguments with her.. Already told her of this character-flaw...
I mean.. We are supposed to be tactful right? So I always make a point to select my words carefully.. But, she is one who never listens..
Another point is that, whenever I talk, she'll interupt with something totally irrelevant.. I am not one who likes to be interupted.. So.. Another minus point..
Lastly but not least, friends who know her knows that she is too-open.. Going beyond even what the Westerners can accept.. It's something that exceeds my moral limits and open-mindedness... Haha...
So.. All these majors points are real detering factors for me... I did not include age as I have no problems with that.. More concern with maturity and morality.. Haha..
Ok.. Feel much better after venting my anger on the keyboard in here.. Haha..
Still trying to find a job.. Sianz..

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